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"And the son said to him: ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son.’ But his father ordered his servants, ‘Quickly, bring the finest robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Take the fattened calf and slaughter it. Then let us celebrate with a feast, because this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost, and has been found.’ Then the celebration began."Jesus of Nazareth, the parable of The Prodigal Son, Luke 15:21-24 -
The accounts presented here are quoted from actual letters, emails or text messages received from validly ordained Catholic priests needing help. The priest's name and identifying information or location may have been modified to protect his privacy.
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January 2023
Month of Mary, the Mother of God
May God, through the intercession of Mary, Mother of Priests, grant you and your family His peace and abundant blessings in this New Year! May our Dear Lord look with great favor on your goodness and generosity. Thanks to your faithful prayers and continued generous support, we were able to immediately provide urgent emotional and financial support to severely depressed Father Eric in his darkest hour – “I fall on my knees and beg you for your assistance . . .”
“Dear Men of Melchizedek,
“About a month ago, when I was experiencing a particularly dark day and wondering if life was even worth living, I received a card in the mail from Joe Maher.
“It said that he was praying for me, and there was a holy card inside. I prayed that prayer and cried and cried for hours. I think, no, I know, that it saved my life!
“I called Joe and we spoke for hours, and he sent me the paperwork to ask for your help. I fall on my knees and beg you for your assistance if you can.
“I am a 73-year-old defrocked priest who was betrayed by my bishop, who forced me to sign a false admission that I was guilty of an allegation that I abused a minor. I did not.
“After defrocking me, I was cut off financially from the Diocese of . . . I served the Diocese faithfully, and for over 40 years never had any allegations been made against me.
“The parishes that I served paid a monthly benefit for my retirement trust fund that was stripped from me. I was literally tossed out into the street with nowhere to live.
“Fortunately, my deceased parents left me their house where I live now. It is in a distressed and dangerous neighborhood, and I have bullet holes in my house. My roof leaks profusely and I have water leaking into my bedroom when it rains.
“In my county of . . . I sought assistance from six references that I was given, and no grants are available for ten years.
“My health is extremely poor. I need a hip replacement, and I have COPD and diabetes. I suffer from, and take three prescriptions for, severe depression. I have high blood pressure and thyroid disorder, to name a few.
“My only source of income is my Social Security . . .
“Again, on my knees, I beg and pray you for any financial aid you might provide, especially a monthly stipend or a grant of any kind.
“With my sincere gratitude and prayers, Father Eric.”
Like so many of his suffering brothers who are distressed and in desperate need, Father Eric cries out for mercy! Without your prayers and your caring financial support, Father Eric, and the many other priests you assist with your generous gifts, would have no one else they can depend on for help. Others have turned their backs on them, even in their times of fear, crisis and urgent anguish. YOU, me, and MOM are their only hope!
Because he clings to me, I will deliver him;
I will set him on high because he acknowledges my name.
He shall call upon me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in his distress.
I will deliver him . . . and will show him my salvation.
Psalm 91:14-16
November 2022
Month of All Souls
In this solemn month dedicated to All Souls, we at MOM want you to know we are praying for your deceased loved ones, that in God’s goodness, they are now enjoying eternal life in Our Lord’s loving embrace. We join you, the priests, staff and Board of Directors of MOM, in also remembering the beloved priests and bishops who have gone before us, especially those who Baptized us, heard our First Confession, offered us First Holy Communion, Confirmed us, Ordained us or Witnessed our Marriage.
During these very challenging and unprecedented times, we ask the Holy Souls to intercede before Almighty God for all of us, especially for our priests who are distressed, anguished and suffering. Like Father Mitch below, many of them are in urgent, sometimes dire need every day, and are utterly dependent upon you, me and MOM for their very survival. As Father Mitch writes: “Whatever you are able to do would be a blessing.”
“Dear Mr. Maher,
“As per our conversation, I am sending this letter to request more assistance from MOM. I was a priest for 35½ years . . .
“You have assisted me with $400 a month, and a friend, Monsignor Tom, also gave me $400 a month . . . [I receive] Social Security . . . and I receive food stamps . . .
“Monsignor Tom is 89 years old and is no longer able to continue to help me with financial assistance.
“And so, I am really in need of help.
“I am hoping that MOM can make a difference for me and make up for my dependence on Monsignor Tom.
“Whatever you are able to do would be a blessing.
“God bless all of you at MOM for being Guardian Angels for me and so many others who have served the Church faithfully for many years.
“Respectfully, Father Mitch
“P.S. You recently increased my grant to $475 a month. Enclosed find my latest rent statement.”
Monsignor Tom called us with deep concern and in distress that, because of his advancing age and medical issues, he could no longer financially support his dear friend, Father Mitch. He asked if there is any way the generous benefactors of MOM could “pick up” his portion of the monthly support he has been providing to Father Mitch. He was upset and worried how his friend, Father Mitch, would be able to survive without his monthly gift!
Would you consider Monsignor Tom’s request to you and me to help in caring for his very dear friend and priest-brother, Father Mitch, who is suffering and in desperate need of your support? Without your prayers and your loving, caring financial support, Father Mitch, and the many other priests you assist with your generous gifts, would have no one else they can depend on for help. YOU and MOM are their only hope!
"We must never forget our loved ones
who have died in our daily prayers and Masses.
Because we are part of the Communion of Saints,
we can surely help them.
Possibly one day, from their place of joy in Heaven,
these Holy Souls will intercede with God for us,
and ask the Lord to bring us into their company."
- Padre Pio, priest
October 2022
Month of the Holy Rosary
During this very special month dedicated to the amazing power of the Most Holy Rosary of the Blessed Virgin Mary, and celebrating the great feast of Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary on October 7th, we keep in mind the heartbreaking distress of distraught, suffering priests like Father Christian below.
Like so many of our priests who have suffered the “trauma” of being ostracized from the Church, their community, and even family and friends because of a single, unproven allegation from decades ago, Father Christian, who has always professed his innocence, now struggles financially simply to make ends meet. Humbled, but also hopeful, Father Christian “will accept whatever your charity thinks appropriate” to help him meet his urgent financial needs.
“Hi Joe, attached is my application for a grant. I will send you my 2021 Tax Form in support of this application. The writing of the request had to be done over several days because of the trauma that is involved here . . .
“My situation involves an allegation in the 1980s for crossing boundaries with a former student I taught and advised as a lay teacher and administrator in a public high school before I even entered the seminary.
“I chose to follow the bishop’s request of participating in an investigation into the legitimacy of the allegation, but the Diocese Review Board which investigated the allegation still ruled it was credible.
“My dealings with the then Bishop . . . were not good. I was pressured to apply to Rome to be released from my priestly promises under obedience to him. I was released from them and freed to continue my priesthood as a hermit in my home.
“The bishop promised to continue paying me my monthly stipend and continue my health insurance, which he has never done.
“My health issues are insulin dependent diabetes, several different types of heart arrhythmias that require a dual purposed ICD. I have to depend on my Social Security monthly payment . . . and a [small] pension from [the] Teacher’s Retirement System.
“I do not receive assistance from the Diocese . . . and I do not receive retirement benefits from the Diocese either. I am fortunate to receive SNAP benefits . . . I live a simple life.
“A monthly grant from your charity would make life easier. I will accept whatever your charity thinks is appropriate.
“Thank you for considering this request. I appreciate all you do for priests like me. Peace, Father Christian.”
The ongoing economic crisis has made life terribly difficult for our hurting and anguished priests like Father Christian, and his brother priests in need. In truth, they have nowhere else to turn for additional financial assistance when the rising costs of even the most basic living expenses cause an extreme burden for them! Because MOM’s resources are very limited, we cannot support all the urgent requests we receive from priests in need like Father Christian without YOU, without YOUR goodness, your charity and your generosity.
That is why your prayers and your loving, caring support are so urgently needed. Father Christian, and the many other priests we assist with your generous gifts, have no one else they can depend on for help at this time. Without YOU, they would lack even the most basic necessities of life. YOU and MOM are their only hope!
O Queen of the Holy Rosary - Traditional Catholic Hymn
honoring Our Blessed Mother,
which has special meaning to so many during the month of October -
O Queen of the Holy Rosary,
Each mystery blends with thine,
The sacred life of Jesus,
In every step divine.
Thy soul was His fair goden,
Thy virgin breast His throne,
They thoughts His faithful mirror,
Reflecting Him Alone.
(Verse 2)
September 2022
Celebrating the Birthday of Our Blessed Mother
During this glorious month honoring the Birth of Mary, Mother of Priests, on September 8th, I am excited to share a grateful letter to you from an astonished Father Henry, one of our suffering priests. You and I know how dramatically prices and costs have been increasing over the past year, making life even more troublesome and difficult for priests, like Father Henry, who is in dire need.
We made a leap-of-faith decision to increase his monthly grant, as well as the grants we provide to some of his brothers. We did this to help them afford the basic necessities of life, firmly believing they “will make every effort to use your gifts in the best way possible, knowing that it has come from generous and loving hearts.”
“Dear Joe, when I opened your check yesterday and read your beautiful letter, I was literally at a loss for words, and I had to read it again, and look at the check again.
“I just couldn’t believe you had added $75 to the already generous check you have been sending me. You understand more than most, how COVID, and the economy, and the current war are affecting people, and I think especially the poor and people who are on a fixed income.
“I can’t begin to tell you how grateful I am to MOM for your consideration and generosity.
“Many other charities are cutting back on their assistance, but MOM is actually adding to it. Yes, times have been difficult lately . . . I have greatly appreciated all the help you have given to me as it was.
“And now, in your love and generosity, you have increased it in a huge way. I will make every effort to use your gifts in the best way possible, knowing that it has come from generous and loving hearts.
“Be sure to share . . . [that] I am grateful beyond words. And I will make every effort from time to time to send what I can to you, so you can continue to help other priests like me.
“A grateful Brother in Christ, Father Henry.”
The current economic crisis has made life extremely difficult for many, but for our poor, suffering priests like Father Henry and his brother priests in need, it has been brutal! Unlike many charitable organizations who have large endowments and substantial trust funds to draw from, we at MOM can only depend on the continued financial support of our Partners in Mission, month-to-month, to provide the financial assistance our priests count on. Our limited budget cannot even support all the urgent requests we receive from priests in need.
That is why MOM's continued caring and loving financial support is deeply meaningful and absolutely vital. The priests MOM assist with the generous gifts of our Partners in Mission have no one else they can depend on for help at this time. Without MOM, they would lack even the most basic necessities of life. YOU and MOM are their only hope!
With deep gratitude for the generosity of our Parterns in Mission, we pray that Our Dear Blessed Mother, born without original sin, Mother of Divine Grace, Seat of Wisdom, Cause of Our Joy, Intercessor at Cana, Comforter of the Afflicted, Gate of Heaven, will intercede always for you and your loved ones.There was a wedding at Cana in Galilee,
and the mother of Jesus was there.
Jesus and his disciples had also been invited.
At a certain point the wine ran out and Jesus' mother told him,
"They have no more wine."
Jesus replied,
"Woman, how does this concern of yours involve me?
My hour has not yet come."
His mother then instructed those waiting on table,
"Do whatever he tells you."
John 2:1-5
August 2022
During this month of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, we commend to her Immaculate Heart the many lonely, suffering priests who we accompany and assist throughout their life, even to their journey home, like Father Patrick below. Because of your prayers and generous financial support his beloved friend, Father John, was able to arrange much needed hospice care, in a compassionate assisted living setting, where he died “very peacefully” with dignity, surrounded by the loving support of caregivers who treasured him.
Without your generous support, Father Patrick’s story would have been much different, as Father John states below in his letter of gratitude to YOU!
“Dear Joe, I wanted to take a moment to write an actual letter, and not just an email, to express my heartfelt gratitude to you, your organization, and your donors for all the support you afforded to my friend, Father Patrick, for the past 16 months.
“That generous support allowed me, in the capacity of his Power of Attorney, to provide for his care at . . . where he has had to live for the past three years due to his failing health.
“As you know, Pat’s health took a precipitous turn for the worse just a couple of weeks ago, and he went home to God . . . he died very peacefully . . .
“The one thing more heart-breaking than his death was the callousness of his diocese. When I contacted them to inform them of his passing, I was told there was a “funeral benefit” to help with funeral expenses. A few days later I was told that he “does not qualify.” When I asked why, I received a very clipped and matter-of-fact response, “because he is not a priest in good-standing.”
“So much for the corporal works of mercy.
“This weekend . . . the Gospel will come from Chapter 8 of John: the story of the woman caught in adultery. After Jesus thwarted the trap the Pharisees attempted to spring on him, he turned his attention to the woman. He did not excuse what she did, nor did he give her a free pass, however, his final response to her was one of gentle mercy . . . No shame. No humiliation . . .
“That is the kind of mercy that God makes available for all His children: for you, for me, for Pat, and even for those who still wish to demoralize him for alleged actions that were never proven or tried in a court of law.
“Thank you again for the kind and compassionate generosity you have shown my friend. May the Risen One bless you and your family abundantly! Father John.”
Father Patrick was just one of the many elderly and infirm Catholic priests who depend on your prayers and generosity for their urgent needs. If it weren’t for your continued prayers and support of MOM, our frail and aged priests would be neglected and abandoned in their physical sufferings, lacking even the financial resources required for everyday life.
Our prayer for you, is that the Immaculate Heart of Mary, vessel of the Holy Spirit, full of grace, comfort of the suffering, refuge of sinner, hope of the dying and seat of mercy will greatly reward you for your generosity and goodness to our priests in need.
Then the king will say to those on his right:
"Come. You have my Father's blessing!
Inherit the kingdom prepared for you
from the creation of the world.
For I was hungry and you gave me food.
I was thirsty and you gave me drink.
I was a stranger and you welcomed me,
naked and you clothed me.
I was ill and you comforted me,
in prison and you came to visit me.
Matthew 25: 34-36
July 2022
Month of the Precious Blood of Jesus
During this month traditionally dedicated to the Most Precious Blood of Jesus, we share with you the distressful reality of our suffering priests. Many of them are facing severe financial hardships due to the ever-increasing costs of goods and services, the impact of skyrocketing inflation, and the dreadful, prolonged effects of the seemingly never-ending COVID19 pandemic. All continue to take a very heavy toll on their wellbeing and their health.
Priests, like Father Ben below, never want to ask for increased financial help because of their concerns that their brothers may need it more. But he, and others like him, are in dire situations, lacking the resources to handle these increased financial burdens that are well beyond their control.
In addition, we are receiving requests from priests we have not previously assisted, who are now asking MOM for financial support just to survive. They have nowhere else to turn. Given these heart-breaking circumstances, we are experiencing a funding EMERGENCY! Without the generous help of our donors, who are our Partners in Mission, we will not be able to care for them all.
“Dear Joe,
“I received the monthly grant check yesterday. I can’t tell you how surprised I am, and how humbled I am, and how grateful I am, by the news that the MOM Board has increased my grant by $75.00.
“You could not have known (but God did) that effective this very month, my food stamps allowance, which had gone up during the pandemic, was dramatically reduced – not to the pre-pandemic level, but to an amount below that. Nor could you have known that I just received a bill for my share of the cost of a CT scan I had about a month ago.
“I am keeping up with my obligations, thanks to MOM. I live simply, in a basement room. As the costs of food and fuel increase, I have been concerned about my ability to meet current obligations. At 73, and with changing circumstances, I am aware that I need to make a new plan for my late years.
“As you indicate in your letter, the support of the MOM family is not only material, but spiritual and psychological. I know that I am not alone on the journey. My profound thanks to you, to the MOM Board, and to our benefactors for all that you do for all of us. I remember you all in daily prayer and at Mass. Gratefully, Father Ben”
During this time of hardship and severe financial EMERGENCY, your prayers and support are desperately needed by our poor priests, like Father Ben, who are truly in urgent need. They lack the financial resources required for everyday life and are anxiously waiting for MOM to help them. There is no one else they can turn to but you, me, and MOM for support at this time.
I commend you now to the Lord,
and to that gracious word of His which can enlarge you
and give you a share among all who are consecrated to Him.
I have always pointed out to you that it is by hard work
that you must help the weak.
You need to recall the words of the Lord Jesus himself,
who said, "There is more happiness in giving than receiving."
Acts 20:32.35
June 2022
Month of the Sacred Heart
In this blessed month devoted to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, we offer our most sincere thanks for all your prayers and very generous financial support for our troubled and suffering priests, especially those like Father Andrew below, who unexpectedly finds himself “in the midst of my ‘removal’.”
Horror-struck, Father’s excruciating pleas for assistance from his diocese and brother priests have gone unheard. Then, in his most desperate and darkest hour, a ray of hope shines forth in the Providential discovery of a MOM card that we mailed to him just weeks before! “I just found your card . . . you and your organization has brought so much light.”
“Hello Joe,
“In the midst of my “removal” from my parish home (rectory), I just found your card and I wanted to immediately reply to your very generous care and concern.
“Your message is very much needed in this time of sudden change of my priesthood and my life.
“In addition to feeling abandoned by my Diocese, I have felt so alone from many of the diocesan priests. It is so heart-warming to receive your card and the Men of Melchizedek information.
“I have been ordained for almost 34 years, the last 8 years at my former parish of . . . with not one letter of complaint from the parish. I was enjoying my ministry as pastor, with a flourishing relationship with the parish.
“The members of my parish are confused as the Diocese has been less than transparent with them about my status and my future. I desperately want to return to active and full ministry. Your info is a great source of strength to me. Thank you.
“I am adjusting this week back to my 91-year-old Mom’s home. The Diocese has allowed me to celebrate private Mass, but without anyone else in the room!
“Just knowing there is someone like you and your organization has brought so much light . . . Hope to hear from you. God bless, Father Andrew”
Because of your continued caring and faithful support, Father Andrew is not alone.
- You helped us provide immediate, crucial, expert advice, and the specialized services of a Catholic Canon Lawyer who is well versed in matters of this kind, to assist Father Andrew.
- Because his diocese has cut him off from all financial support, your goodness, charity and generosity have enabled us to offer Father Andrew supplemental financial assistance until this terrible situation is resolved.
Father Andrew is deeply grateful and relieved! For Father Andrew and his suffering brothers who often feel abandoned, deserted, forgotten and alone, YOU, me, and MOM are their only hope!
How long will you judge unjustly and favor the cause of the wicked?
I call you to defend the lowly and the fatherless;
render justice to the afflicted and the destitute.
Rescue the lowly and the poor; from the hand of the wicked deliver them.
Rise, O God; judge the earth, for yours are all the nations.
Psalm 82:2-4,8
May 2022
Month of Mary
When our suffering priests plead for essential financial support from MOM, they never ask for more than what they desperately need. In every single case, we hear them say, “I know there are many more of my brother priests whose needs are greater than mine.” So, when unexpected car repairs, a computer failure, and the only chair he can sit in because of a painful medical condition gives up its “ghost,” then, as a very distressed Father James laments below, “when it rains, it pours!”
As we often must do here at MOM, “reading through the lines” of Father James’ thank you note, we know his unexpected financial needs aren’t fully being met with just the funds we send him in our monthly grant. With no one else to turn to for help, Father James depends on MOM once again, but he is too humble, too considerate of others to ask for more!
“Dear Men of Melchizedek, Benefactors & Staff,
“Thank you for my monthly stipend and Mass Intentions.
“This has been a difficult month for me.
“Severe stomach pain that has my gastro doctor puzzled. He has done many tests and cannot pinpoint the cause of abdomen pain.
“He sent me to a pain clinic. The doctor there said I have to come back when the pain is severe so he can know the best treatment.
“Your help couldn’t have come at a better time.
“This month I needed car repairs, my recliner gave up its ghost and I had to buy a new recliner from Big Lot, my computer crashed and required a tech guy to install a new hard drive and reinstall Windows.
“When it rains, it pours!
“Thanks for the [monthly] grant and especially, thank you for your prayers,
“Peace, Father James”
Father James is very deeply grateful for our monthly financial support we offer him. Because of his advanced age and very serious medical infirmities, it would be hard for him to survive without our help. Like so many of his suffering brother priests who often feel deserted, forgotten and alone, Father James depends on MOM in their most desperate hours of need. WE are their only hope!Paul delivered this address . . . Keep watch over yourselves,
and over the whole flock the Holy Spirit has given you to guard.
I have always pointed out to you that
it is by hard work that you must help the weak.
You need to recall the words of the Lord Jesus himself, who said,
"there is more happiness in giving than receiving."
Acts of the Apostles 20:18, 28, 35
March 2022
As we begin the great penitential season of Lent, when our acts of mercy, almsgiving and penance inspire us to care for the poor and those who are hurting, we remember in a very profound way our suffering Catholic priests, like Father Walter. He is experiencing terrible, painful emotional burdens and severe financial hardships after being extradited and jailed because of a 40-year-old allegation he has vehemently and steadfastly denied.
“Rather than spend 20 pages on this ridiculous case, it is enough to state that these charges are without merit. It is a “he says-she says” case without any substantial evidence for conviction . . .
“Presently I have hired my own criminal attorney. The fees to pay this Attorney are being paid by a classmate in my seminary years who lives in . . .
“As for myself, I was ordained in 1981 as a missionary priest . . . owning nothing, serving our community wherever we are called . . . begging for every meal.
“We do not take salaries.
“I have never been accused, charged nor arrested for any such sexual conduct crime in my life. I am 66 years old and 41 years serving as a missionary priest. Never laicized. Both parents are deceased . . .
“I do not receive SSI (Social Security) . . . When looking at the bank statement from my Credit Union, you will see I have received stimulus checks that were a direct deposit into my account. These checks were used to pay a court appointed attorney $6,500 to defend me, which he didn’t . . . so I fired him.
“I am receiving health insurance: fully covered Medicare and Medicaid. I am also receiving an EBT Card to cover my food expense . . . I am receiving $250 to cover all food . . . I have no other source of income.
“I am compounding the stress now since I am threatened with eviction . . . One month ago [my landlord] made it clear that I need to come up with $500 rent monthly to make the monthly bills, otherwise he will have to ask me to leave and have a close friend move in who CAN PAY THE $500 RENT.
“FOR THIS REASON, I HUMBLY ASK THAT MEN OF MELCHIZEDEK help me cover the $500 monthly rent for the next 6 months to one year . . .
“Thank you for hearing my request.
“God Bless you. Father Walter.”
Although it is true that not all priests are innocent, it is also true that not all priests are guilty, as Father Walter steadfastly professes. With no income and nowhere else to turn to avoid eviction, Father Walter is in dire need this Lent of our loving prayers and generous, caring support. Like so many of his suffering brother priests who often feel deserted, forgotten and alone, Father Walter depends on MOM.
This is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly.
Setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke;
sharing your bread with the hungry,
sheltering the oppressed and the homeless;
clothing the naked when you see them,
and not turning your back on your own.
Isaiah 58:6-7
February 2022
As the Church community celebrates the uplifting and encouraging Feast of
Our Lady of Lourdes on February 11th, we pray to Our Blessed Mother for you, especially for your needs for healing. Like you, Father James (below) has been one of our trusted Partners in Mission, donating whenever he can from his limited income to assist his suffering brother priests. A plight he knows all too well!
Unfortunately, as the realities of the COVID virus continued to wreak havoc, in Spring 2021, Father James lost his job – his only source of income. Since then, he has survived off his very small savings. But like so many of our suffering priests, Father James now turns to you, to me, and to MOM as he is “trying to keep my confidence up with my consecrations to our Immaculate Mother and Saint Joseph. Headed into the local adoration chapel now.”
“Dear Joe and MOM Staff,
“I hope all of you are well. I just picked up my mail at the post office and was pleasantly surprised to see your card wishing me a happy birthday. Thank you for the thoughts and prayers! I can use them.
“I apologize for not donating as much money this year. I got let go from my job in May at . . .
“I have had savings to help me in this period. Finding a new job has been difficult as it is both a what/where question . . .
“We got a new vicar for clergy … and he asked me for a visit and dangled the idea of returning to some kind of less public ministry.
“When I asked about specifics, and how they would support me publicly if my accuser . . . made a fuss, I didn’t hear back for many weeks, and when I finally asked them again, the vicar for clergy wasn’t very hopeful and suggested that I keep looking for a job.
“I am more fortunate than most priests, as the archdiocese is still paying for my health insurance. However, the [media] article about me . . . three years ago, I believe, hurts my job prospects, and also keeps me from applying for certain jobs because I know people will see it if they look.
“I am 60 in a week. The difficult part of my job hunting is not having hard skills like being an auto mechanic, aircraft mechanic or some trade training . . .
“Trying to keep my confidence up with my consecrations to our Immaculate Mother and Saint Joseph. Headed into the local adoration chapel now. Definite frustration to express to the Lord, but to whom else would we turn, as St. Peter said to Jesus in John chapter 6? Our struggling world doesn’t offer anything except deception and the work of the evil one.
“Thank you and your staff for your continued ministry to priests. May all of you be abundantly blessed now and forever . . . Father James.”
All of us can relate to the intense, penetrating fear of suddenly finding ourselves unemployed, and then the painful frustration of not being able to find work, just to survive. With no income, Father James is in critical need. Like so many of his suffering brother priests who so often feel deserted, forgotten and alone, Father James depends on you, me and MOM. WE are their only hope!
Fear not, I am with you; be not dismayed;
I am your God.
I will strengthn you, and help you,
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10
January 2022
A Blessed and Happy New Year! In this month dedicated to Mary, the Mother of God, we are so very thankful for your heartfelt prayers and continued generous financial support for our suffering priests, like Father Pat below. He is desperately trying to find an affordable place to live. As Father Pat laments “Since prices keep increasing . . . Finding an apartment I can afford is about non-existent”.
Advancing in age, Father Pat’s health continues to deteriorate, and he becomes ever more in need of your prayerful support . . . just to survive.
“Good afternoon Mr. Maher!
“I pray that you, your family and your ministry are doing well and continue to be blessed by [the] forgiving love of God and the protection of our Mother Mary.
“Since prices keep increasing, it makes things somewhat more difficult. Finding an apartment I can afford is about non-existent . . .
”An overdue health update: I have not been well for several months and age is not helping the situation.
“Yes, I have developed some arthritis in my knees, which is part of getting old.
“But the temporary physical therapist assistant who came for a week to cover for my regular physical therapist, was very aggressive in the way she massaged my legs, especially the knees.
“In the process she damaged both my knees. That’s what the MRI indicates.
“Consequently, it is seriously affecting my calf muscles. Walking is painful and at times quite difficult.
“But my faith in prayer, positive thinking and attitude certainly help. For that I thank the Good Lord.
“The orthopedic doc I see arranged for me to see a specialist, but he couldn’t schedule an appointment until the end of [next month].
“So sorry, I forgot the main reason I wrote to you: Thank you and the Men of Melchizedek for you continued generosity.
“It is a life saver.
“May the Good Lord bless you and your ministry at least a hundredfold. [Fr.] Pat”
For Father Pat, facing debilitating suffering and a desperate search to find affordable housing, he is in great need of your loving prayers and generous, caring support. Like so many of his suffering brother priests, Father Pat depends on our continued support. MOM exists for ONE reason: to offer love and caring to our suffering priests. They are often abandoned, deserted, forgotten and turn to you, me and MOM. We are their only hope!
And not only that, but we must also rejoice in our afflictions.
For we know that affliction makes for endurance,
and endurance for tested virtue,
and tested virtue for hope.
And this hope will not leave us disappointed,
because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts
through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.
Romans 5:3-5
November 2021
In this solemn month dedicated to All Souls, we at MOM want you to know we are praying for your deceased loved ones, that in God’s goodness, they are now enjoying eternal life in Our Lord’s loving embrace. We join you, the priests, staff and Board of Directors of MOM, in also remembering those beloved priests and bishops who have gone before us, especially the priests who baptized us, heard our First Confession, gave us our First Holy Communion, Confirmed us, Ordained us or Married us.
During these very challenging and unprecedented times, we ask the Holy Souls to intercede before Almighty God for all of us, especially for our priests who are distressed, anguished and suffering. Like Father Tom below, many of them are in daily, urgent need and are utterly dependent upon you, me and MOM for their very survival. As Father Tom writes: “How could I survive today without the caring support of your many donor friends who provide for priests like me?”
“Dear Joe,
“It’s important for me to acknowledge what your help has meant to me, and to take this opportunity to express my profound gratitude to MOM’s donors. You have been a light in the darkness for so many priests who struggle or find themselves in a time of crisis. Most of their stories will never be known until eternity.
“A diocesan priest is reliant on his bishop for many key aspects of his life, including his home, income and retirement benefits, health insurance, and his connection to and place in the Church.
“It should be no surprise to anyone that priests are more vulnerable now than perhaps at any time in American history. But it might surprise some to learn the power a diocesan bishop has over his priests with essentially no accountability. A priest can lose virtually everything overnight—literally.
“Not long ago, I found myself in this very sort of situation and you offered me a kind and listening ear. I have benefitted greatly from your friendship and prayers. Without you and MOM, I would have thrown in the towel long ago!
“Recently, and largely because of developments in other parts of the country that had no direct connection to me, my bishop chose to remove all financial support and health insurance from me, although I remain his priest and am still in the clerical state. When you became aware of this development, MOM sprang into action and was able to help me pay my bills. For me, this was the difference between staying in my apartment or falling into destitution and homelessness.
“Joe, what would I do without MOM’s help? How could I survive today without the caring support of your many donor friends who provide for priests like me?
“I am forever grateful for MOM’s continuing assistance to me, and my suffering brothers like me, and especially to Our Lady who has inspired MOM and your donors to this holy work! Sincerely in Christ Our High Priest, Fr. Tom”
As Father Tom so sadly states, he would have long ago “thrown in the towel” if it weren’t for your loving prayers and your generous, caring support for him. There are many priests in dire need who are completely dependent upon our continued support lest they fall “into destitution and homelessness”. MOM exists for no other reason than to love and care for our suffering priests who are often abandoned and have nowhere else to turn to but you, me and MOM. WE are their life-line and their only hope!
The God of all grace, who called you to his everlasting glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen and establish those who have suffered a little while. Dominion be his throughout the ages! Amen.
1 Peter 5:10-11
October 2021
During this month dedicated to the Holy Rosary, and as we celebrate the beautiful October 7th Feast in Honor of Our Lady of the Rosary, we remember especially our suffering priests who have spent countless hours praying the Rosary and offering their Holy Masses for thousands upon thousands of our intentions, and yet, at times, they are left poor, penniless and struggling just to survive. It is heartbreaking that those who so readily forgive our most grievous fault would be abandoned during their hour of most urgent need and dire necessity . . . like Monsignor Paul below. With deep and heart-felt gratitude for your caring support and loving generosity, YOU can help them now!
“I was ordained to the Catholic priesthood in 1973 . . . I was appointed Chaplain of Honor to His Holiness with the title Monsignor, becoming [at that time] the youngest Monsignor in the United States. I received the honor of being named Knight Commander of the Order of the Holy Sepulchre. I have received the following degrees: Master of Arts, Master of Divinity, and a Licentiate in Canon Law.
“I was eventually accused of sexual misconduct, and after a lengthy and somewhat irregular process, I was ultimately dismissed from the clerical state.
The legal exigencies of confidentiality prevent me from discussing the details.
“I was able to find part-time work for about 12 years in a law office. This ended about six years ago. I have received absolutely no assistance from my diocese as canon law requires (canon 1350, §2). I have received no pension despite the fact that I was completely vested in the diocesan plan, and even have a letter from the [then] Chancellor of the Diocese of . . . saying that I was eligible.
“In the six years since my employment, my indebtedness has grown substantially. Seeking other sources of income, I applied for and received Social Security benefits and SNAP (food stamps). It appears that I am not eligible for anything more. I have reached the point of not being able to pay the minimums on my credit card debt.
“This is why I have nowhere else to turn but to your charitable organization for assistance . . .
“Please note that I am making requests both for monthly assistance to survive, and for consideration on a waiting list for a possible grant to help reduce my [debt] . . . I realize that there must be others who are in as bad or worse situation than I, but any help at all that you can give will mean more than you know.
“Thank you for your kind consideration of this matter. I pray for you and your apostolate every day. “He who has compassion on the poor lends to the Lord, and He will repay him for his good deed” (Proverbs 19:17). God bless you. Monsignor Paul”
After seeking aid from the government and receiving food stamps, Monsignor Paul has exhausted all his options in begging for financial help. He is now completely dependent upon our generosity. Monsignor Paul is just one of many suffering priests who are urgently requesting financial assistance from MOM in their dire need. Monsignor Paul and many of his other suffering brother priests have no one else to turn to but to you, me and MOM for support. YOU are their only hope!
"If one of your brothers is in need . . .
you shall not harden your heart nor close your hand to him in his need.
Instead, you shall open your hand to him
and freely lend him enough to meet his need."
Deuternonomy 15:7-8
September 2021
This month, as we celebrate the beautiful Feast of the Birth of Mary, we are reminded that only through the generosity of a chosen few were Our Blessed Mother and Saint Joseph assisted during severe hardships in providing for the Divine Infant, Jesus Christ the High Priest.
Today, you and I have that same privilege, to be the chosen few in helping Mary, Mother of Priests, through our benevolent prayers and generous sacrifices of love in providing for her suffering priest-sons, especially those in most need like Father Joe below.
“Hi Joe,
“I wanted to give you an update so that you know how very much your money is appreciated and that it is not being taken for granted but is so very helpful. I couldn’t make it without it.
“I recently had to have my big toe amputated (that makes two amputations on my right foot). I am getting along well but healing slowly. I am now scheduled for some more cardiac stents to be put in this Thursday. In the meantime, I had to have a colonoscopy because they found an abnormality. So, I spent my time going to the doctors’ offices.
“Because of that, I have enormous medical bills which your money really helps with trying to defray. But our insurance isn’t that good and it’s leaving me a lot to deal with.
“In the midst of all of this, my car broke down and I’m being told I have to get a new engine to the tune of $5,000. I don’t have any savings and I’m trying to figure out what I can do. I owe too much on the car to trade it in, so right now I am living without a car which is very difficult . But I have some kind friends who take me to work. Sometimes I have to take an Uber which has been a pleasant experience but is expensive and that makes me nervous . . .
“My patron saint is Saint Joseph and he has been my favorite Saint since I was a kid. So, I’m loving this year and praying very hard to his intercession to learn confident trust in God . . .
“Your constant friendship and support, prayers and gifts have been an ongoing sign of Providence and I am so very grateful . . . I want you to know how much your money is appreciated and that it is being put to good use.
“. . . I continue to pray for you and MOM every day. Blessings, Fr. Joe”
The monthly financial assistance that Father Joe receives from MOM is making a huge difference in his life, and as he so pointedly states, “it is being put to good use”. Father Joe is just one of many suffering priests who are urgently requesting assistance from MOM in their time of dire need. They are begging for our help and compassion because they have no one else to turn to but to you, me and MOM. YOU and I are their only hope!
"What should we do then?" the crowds asked.
John Answered,
"Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none,
and anyone who has food should do the same."
Luke 3:10-11
August 2021
As we celebrate the great feast this month of Our Lady, Assumed into Heaven, we express to you our heartfelt and sincere gratitude for your continued prayers and faithful support in assisting our suffering priests, men like Father Philip, who depend on MOM for their very survival. In his own words, “I sincerely want to thank you for your care, generosity and concern. Without it . . . the surgeons might not have provided me with [the] health care I desperately needed.”
The Immaculate Heart of Mary, Mother of Priests, must fill with joy because of your caring and loving heart in assisting her suffering priest-sons like Father Philip!
“Good afternoon Mr. Maher!
“ . . . I want to assure you of my humble but sincere prayers for you, all those associated with Men of Melchizedek and those you love.
“I sincerely want to thank you for your care, generosity and concern. Without it I would not be able to pay my supplemental insurance every month.
“I don’t know what I would have done without it.
“Having gone through eight cardiac operations, the surgeons might not have provided me with [the] health care I desperately needed.
“Though the Diocese had promised they would support my needs and my insurance, it now makes years since they have not provided me anything or even acknowledged my existence.
“It’s a cross I willingly carry for my brother Priests’ spiritual needs.
“Your concern and generosity is greatly appreciated.
“Daily I pray that our Resurrected Lord’s Merciful Love and the continued intercession of Mother Mary reward you at least a hundredfold.
“Know that the Holy Family is with you, so make it a great day for his Greater Glory.
“Father Philip (Psalm 110:4) [The LORD has sworn and will not change his mind: ‘You are a priest forever, in the order of Melchizedek.’]”
Father Philip is just one of many priests who are urgently requesting support from MOM in their most desperate hours of need. When he first contacted us, Father Philip was in dire despair and feeling alone, abandoned and without hope. However, thanks to your caring, generous support, Father Philip’s priestly spirit has been renewed, and his despair has been transformed to “. . . a cross I willingly carry for my brother Priests’ spiritual needs.” The truth is Father Philip and his suffering priest-brothers have no one else they can turn to but you, me and MOM for support. YOU are their only hope! YOUR compassionate concern is their saving lifeline!
"Let us not grow weary while doing good,
for in due season we shall reap if he do not lose heart.
Therefore, as we have the opportunity,
let us do good to all,
especially those who are of the household of the faith."
Paul's Letter to the Galatians 6:9-10
July 2021
During this month traditionally dedicated to the Most Precious Blood of Jesus, we are sad to share with you that in the last 12 months COVID-related complications, like job loss, temporary layoffs and price increases for services have taken a heavy toll on many of our suffering priests. Right now, we have requests from over a dozen priests, like Father Frank below, who are worriedly “waiting in-line” for urgent financial assistance from MOM.
“Dear Joe,
“I am responding to your letter received today.
“I was involuntarily laicized in 2004. I was ordained for the Archdiocese of . . . in 1964.
“While I receive a pension . . . monthly from the Archdiocese . . . I find myself running short each month [after paying for rent, food, utilities, car insurance, medication, meals on wheels] . . .
“. . . then there are dental bills for check-ups, foot clinic, $40 per visit and over the counter medications.
“I am enclosing my current bank statement.
“I am receiving treatment for eye disease – Glaucoma and Macular Degeneration.
“I need $100 per month currently.
“My automobile is a 2005 Toyota Camry I drive mainly for medical appointments and to get groceries.
“Hope you can be of help to me.
“Sincerely, Rev. Frank
“Encl. bank statement showing pension, SS and rent.”
Your prayers are desperately needed by our poor priests, like Father Frank, who are truly in urgent need.
"From Jesus Christ the faithful witness,
the first-born from the dead and ruler of the kings of earth.
To him who loves us and freed us from our sins by his blood,
who has made us a royal nation of priests
in the service of his God and Father -
to him be glory and power forever and ever! Amen."
Revelation 1:5-6
June 2021
During this month dedicated to the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, may our own hearts be moved to offer compassion to our suffering priests who struggle daily just to survive. Often, they have just enough to pay for basic living expenses, like 80-year-old Father Ernest below. But because they have no one else to turn to for help, they are gripped with the oppressive, terrible fear of how to pay for the inevitable “unexpected expenses we all have.”
Father Ernest lost his part-time job due to Covid-19, and although he is still looking for work, his most urgent need is to be able to pay for upcoming car repairs and maintenance on his aging automobile . . . “without a car, I wouldn’t be able to live here.” Father Ernest could lose his home to foreclosure!
“Dear Joe,
“Thank you for the opportunity to request aid from Men of Melchizedek.
“There are many months when it is difficult for me to make ends meet, but I will not claim to be destitute.
“What changed my circumstances was the loss of my part-time job . . . due to Covid-19.
“. . . I was making an additional $400 to $500 monthly from that job. That removed a lot of worry, and it also helped greatly toward the unexpected expenses we all have.
“As you know, I turned 80 recently, but I am still open to another part-time job if one becomes available.
“These are the circumstances under which I am asking for help.
“I am requesting help in the amount of $150 - $200.00 per month.
“I was born . . . 1940, ordained June 3, 1967, for the . . .
“My car is a 2005 . . . It’s basically in good shape, but unexpected expenses over these past three years have been significant. However, without a car, I wouldn’t be able to live here.
“Thank you very much for your consideration of my request . . . I pray for you and for Men of Melchizedek, and for the success of your mission.
“Sincerely Yours in Our Heavenly Father, Father Ernest.”
Your prayers are desperately needed by our poor priests in urgent need, like Father Ernest. There is no one else they can turn to but you and MOM for support. For Father Ernest, you are his hope.
Jesus stood up and cried out:
"If anyone thirsts, let him come to me;
let him drink who believes in me.
Scripture has it
'From within him rivers of living water shall flow.'"
John 7:37b-38
May 2021
You are the Heart of Christ each time you provide the resources for MOM to continue to save, serve, encourage and lift up so many suffering Catholic priests who, by their own falls or the unjust circumstances thrust upon them, often feel completely, hopelessly forsaken by everyone. Your loyal care and goodness, through your generous prayerful support for our suffering priests like Father Tom (below), truly glorify the Merciful Heart of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, the High Priest.
As Father Tom’s heart-rending plea below states, “I do not know of any other organization that helps priests in urgent need.” If it weren’t for you, there would be no one to help Father Tom! YOU are God’s mercy made present.
“My birthdate is . . . 1937. I was ordained a priest for the diocese of . . . on May 28, 1966 . . .
“I came to know of MOM because of Joe Maher. I have known him (by way of phone) for a few years.
“I do not know of any other organization that helps priests in urgent need.
“In 2016, I offended someone by my inappropriate behavior. My situation was settled and then I was eventually laicized.
“I am alone. I have no family to help me. My sister lives in Arizona. She is single and retired and has all she can do to take care of herself.
“I have been staying at a motel . . . I never intended to be here this long. I have been trying to get an apartment that I believe I can afford. I continue this effort as my goal.
“I get Social Security . . . My retirement benefit . . . But I no longer receive some other benefits I previously got from the Diocese . . .
“Hip surgery and treatment for my heart issues was paid through medical assistance . . . I have help with some meals . . . my gravesite [I] sold back to the cemetery.
“So, this is my story. I respectfully request that you consider assisting me with $300 to $500 each month.
“I am now partially disabled. This would help me care for some additional needs, besides my regular expenses.
“Thank you for considering my request. I just want to live my life in peace and attend to my remaining years. Sincerely, Father Tom.”
"And I will give you a new heart and place a new spirit within you, taking from your body your stony hearts and giving you natural hearts. I will put my spirit within you, to live by my statutes, careful to observe my decrees . . . You shall be my people and I will be your God"
Ezekiel 36:26-28
April 2021
During these glorious days of Easter, as we offer our prayers and gifts in thanksgiving for the Resurrection of Our Merciful Savior, we at MOM turn our attention toward the most suffering of our priests, those who are desperately struggling to meet urgent financial needs. For many priests, like Father John, there is a sense of daily despair, knowing that after exhausting all their efforts to find someone to help them, they have no one left to turn to for assistance.
The agonizing reality that they are completely alone can crush the spirit of even the best of us, like Father John who writes below, “. . . any aid you can offer will keep me from falling off the edge. Men of Melchizedek is my only hope!”
What an awesome privilege it is for us to join Mary Magdalene and the Apostles in their jubilation over the discovery of the Risen Lord, Jesus Christ the High Priest, by raising up our poor suffering Alter Christi with our caring, love, and generous prayerful support to help with their dire needs!
“Dear Joe,
“I am hoping that Men of Melchizedek can offer me monthly financial assistance, since I cannot work in ministry, and you save priests in need.
“At age 75, with health issues and no financial help from the diocese or my family, I am struggling.
“I realize that there are priests on the verge of homelessness (or there already), and you must prioritize, but any aid you can offer will keep me from falling off the edge.
“Men of Melchizedek is my only hope!
“I live on a small pension and Social Security.
“I estimate that $150 - $200 per month would keep me afloat.
“Often, I must trade off one important need for another to juggle expenses.
“If my car broke down, I don’t know what I’d do!
“My dog keeps me sane.
“With gratitude for your ministry! “Father John.”
Mary Magdalene came with the other Mary to inspect the tomb. Suddently there was a mighty earthquake, as the angel of the Lord descended from heaven. He came to the stone and rolled it back . . .
Then the angel spoke, addressing the women:
"Do not be frightened.
I know you are looking for Jesus the crucified, but he is not here.
He has been raised, exactly as he promised.
Matt 28:1-2,5-6
February 2021
Thanks to our Partners in Mission faithful prayers and financial support, MOM has assisted our suffering priests with desperately needed resources vital to coping with the many devastating effects of the COVID-19 Virus Pandemic. Not only are they deeply grateful for MOM's life-saving support, but also some of their bishops “stand in admiration” of MOM's devotion to their anguished priest-sons through the continued support of MOM.
For bishops, the dreadful, heart-rending reality of continued lawsuits against the Church for past abuse, along with government restrictions on Church attendance, have forced some dioceses into bankruptcy. Huge payouts in sex abuse lawsuits, combined with massive short falls in contributions due to the virus, have sadly curtailed some bishops’ abilities to provide additional financial assistance to their beloved priest-sons.
The sincere, heartfelt letter below from a very caring bishop illustrates this point as he struggles to provide much-needed support for one of his dying priests. What an awesome, sacred privilege it is for our trusted Partners in Mission, and for all of us at MOM, to be blessed with the opportunity to assist one of Christ’s Successor to the Apostles in need!
“Hello Joe,
“I hope this email/letter finds you well. Several years ago, you helped me with a priest of the Diocese who lived in California: Father Brian. You were able to help him in his final years, before he died from MS [multiple sclerosis], and I am forever grateful for that help.
“I have a new situation to present to you. [Father] James, a priest of the Diocese, is in the Assisted Living facility in . . . He is a priest on administrative leave; 85 years of age; suffering from advanced prostate cancer.
“The issue is that his own personal resources are beginning to run low. He has enough funds to make it through the end of 2020. Beginning in January 2021, there will be a monthly deficit of $1,159.65. (He receives a total of $2,829.35 between Social Security and his Diocesan benefit.)
“The cancer has taken an emotional toll on [Father] James, as well as a physical toll. He uses adult diapers and needs help bathing.
“During COVID, he has been confined to his room, with meals being delivered to his room. So, it has been a very lonely time for him.
“Please note that I have copied Rev. Paul . . . on this correspondence. Father Paul, a priest in . . . , has been ministering to [Father] James these last few years as his health declined. Father Paul would be happy to give you any other information you may need to help you.
“I stand in admiration of what you have done for priests, and I can assure you of my gratitude for what you might be able to do in this situation.
“Please know of my prayers and support for Men of Melchizedek and all who work with you in this ministry. Sincerely in Christ, Bishop . . .”
As more bishops continue to reach out to MOM for trusted, confidential assistance for their suffering priest-sons, our Partners in Mission prayers and financial support console priests like Father James so that they will not die lonely or without the proper medical support they need. Instead, because of MOM, Father James will experience a profound outpouring of love during his critical final days of life.
“I ask you, how can God’s love survive in a person who has enough of this world’s goods, yet closes his heart to his brother when he sees him in need? My children, let us love in deed and in truth and not merely talk about it."
1 John 3:17-18
January 2021
At times, our suffering and struggling priests like Father Gary are very reluctant to ask for additional financial support, so we must “read between the lines.” Our sacred mission of saving, serving and building up the priesthood compels us to be ever more vigilant in the proper care and treatment of our beloved priests who are in dire need. Humiliated by having to beg for themselves, and fearing it would take away from their brother priests who may be at greater risk of financial collapse, they won’t ask for what they truly need. We hear this so many times! And yet, they have nowhere else to turn, but to you and MOM.
“Dear Joe,
“Thank you so very much for the $250.00 that you sent. It is very much appreciated.
“I am doing ok.
“Please keep me in your prayers as I have been having some heart issues (because I need more to deal with) and will have a cath next week [heart catheterization – to diagnose and treat heart conditions]. Hopefully that will take care of the problem!
“I am trying to save money for my car . . .
“My brakes are grinding and making terrible sounds . . . I am scheduling an estimate and will hope we can break it down in manageable pieces over time to repair.
“Oh well. Otherwise I am doing fine.
“I feel very blessed that my prayer life is very comforting, and this gives me great strength and peace.
“Well, enough about me. I hope you are well. You are a real blessing.
“Please know that my daily prayers continue for you . . . and MOM.
“Gratefully, Fr. Gary”
If you could “read between the lines” of Father Gary’s letter, you’d know that actually, he is NOT doing “Okay,” because if he is unable to get his car repaired soon, he will lose his job. In addition, he could not find a repair shop that would allow him to make payments. Father Gary’s hardship is truly urgent, because his work requires him to have a car in order to visit several different locations weekly. Recognizing there was more to his dire situation, quickly we were on the phone with him to accurately assess his true need.
Reluctantly, Father Gary shared with us that he was afraid to ask, “because I know there are so many other priests in greater need than me.” With tears of gratitude, Father Gary was greatly relieved to hear that we would do our best to assist him with the car repairs he so desperately requires to keep his job.
"Whatever you ask in My name, I will do, so as to glorify the Father in the Son. Anything you ask me in my name I will do.
I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Paraclete -
to be with you always: the Spirit of truth
whom the wold does not accept since it neither sees him
nor recognizes him." John 14:13-17a
November 2020
As often happens in our work in caring for priests who are in desperate need, one priest we assisted in a small way was deeply overcome with gratitude, and so he immediately thought of a suffering brother priest struggling terribly to meet even the basic necessities of life.
Father Tim contacted us seeking a competent Spiritual Director after his difficulty in finding one in his diocese. After we referred him to a very experienced, very holy priest for spiritual direction, Father Tim was so thankful with our immediate, caring support that he couldn’t wait to share his good fortune with his poor brother priest, Father Charlie. The concerned Father Tim emailed me the anxious note below:
“Good Morning, Joe!
“Praised be Jesus Christ! I was glad to receive your email about the correct priest to contact for spiritual direction . . .
“My friend doesn’t know I’m writing to you and he may have written to you already, but just in case he hasn’t, I thought I would. He is Father Charlie, a priest who is receiving about half the help he was before, though he didn’t complain when he told me about it the other day. He’s grateful for whatever he receives.”
“I hadn’t been in contact with him since June because of my dad’s health problems and my own, and when I finally contacted him just a few days ago he told me about his situation.
“I told him about your apostolate and that he ought to contact you because maybe you could help him. The latest cell phone number I have for Father Charlie is . . . He has a new address, but I don’t know what it is. I forgot to ask him for it after he moved from . . .
“I hope you are doing well, and I hope Men of Melchizedek is flourishing. It is my firm belief Jesus our High Priest will give a flourishing apostolate to you after all you’ve suffered for Him and His priests, in addition to all the good you’ve done for us for so many years, most of which I would bet came about because you answered “Yes” to Jesus when He asked if you were willing to suffer for what you were requesting for His priests.
“I know there were many joys for you, too, which He gave to you because He loves you and wanted to reward all your efforts for His priests.
“I won’t say anything to Father Charlie about my having written to you just in case you’re not able to help him right now. Hopefully he’s already written to you, and I’m behind as I usually am.
“God bless you, Joe, and all who work with you at Men of Melchizedek. Please be assured of my prayers and I ask for yours for me . . . In Jesus and Mary, Fr. Tim”
We contacted Father Charlie, and he was overcome with emotion. As we’ve witnessed so many times before, Father Charlie was just too embarrassed to call us; it’s not in his nature to ask for help. Through his humble tears he cried, “Priests aren’t supposed to ask for help, we’re supposed to give help.” But who is going to assist and care for our wounded priests, if not you and me? Who will assure them they are not forgotten? Who will be their hope if you and I are not the face, the hands and the heart of Christ for them?
We assured Father Charlie we have many faithful caring Partners in Mission like you, who love him and want the best for him, and like Our Lady, are eager to help him in whatever ways he needs MOM the most. Father Charlie just couldn’t believe it!
"For the needy shall not always be forgotten, nor shall the hope of the afflicted parish forever." Psalm 9:19
October 2020
Sometimes the priesthood can be so incredibly stressful, demanding and draining, that a priest honestly may not know who to turn to for caring and confidential support. He can become completely vulnerable and just plain worn out.
After 35½ years of passionate ministry, Father Roger was on the fast track to a breakdown, severe burnout or worse, death. His life was a constant barrage of intense trials, especially dealing with the tragedies associated with parish closings and mergers, and multiple archdiocesan assignments, which he felt he could not refuse. Add to that ministering to the lost and forgotten, responding to the late-night, desperate calls for hospital emergencies, performing funerals, administering Baptisms, celebrating weddings, and the plethora of daily parish duties as a lone pastor . . . well, you get the picture!
Then, unexpectedly a new opportunity entered his life, captivating him and leading him to ponder another direction. This was a path away from priestly ministry and away from the vocation he loved. Eventually it left leaving Father Roger virtually penniless and alone.
“Dear Mr. Maher,
“In our recent telephone conversation, you asked me to write you a letter describing my most recent financial situation. As we talked about, in May I turned 72 years old.
“I served the Archdiocese of . . . for 35½ years and left in good standing to get married.
“The marriage lasted for two years, during which my life savings were greatly depleted.
“Currently I live in a very small room in a local motel in . . . My only source of income is a monthly Social Security check for $961.00 which covers a little more than half my rent.
“Social Services provides me with food stamps each month which does not allow me to purchase any prepared foods, only frozen and canned items, milk, juice, fruit and other such items.
“I cannot purchase my toiletries, over the counter medicines such as aspirin or Tylenol etc. Also, items such as rotisserie chicken is not allowed.
“With the little savings I have left, I can’t afford clothing or transportation. I have no car because the insurance would be impossible. Rent is my #1 priority and that is where my Social Security is used.
“With winter coming and the bad weather ahead, I am scared about what will happen when I can no longer afford my rent.
“And so, I come to you and ask for whatever financial help you are in a position to offer.
“It is very difficult for me to ask and beg, but I have no other place to turn.
“God bless Men of Melchizedek for all you do for the priesthood.
“Fraternally, Rev. Roger . . .”
For us here at MOM, Father Roger’s story is not unique. We are all vulnerable at times, and sometimes we are so overwhelmed by unrelenting challenges that, without adequate support, we just simply give up. On our first phone call, Father Roger said that he wished he had known about us earlier. Well, there are many more Father Roger’s out there who, without our caring assistance, would have no one else to turn to. Because of your prayerful support, our priests don’t have to shoulder life’s burdens alone, or feel isolated in their struggles.
"For I know well the plans I have in mind for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare, not for woe! Plans to giveyou a future full of hope. When you call me, I will listen to you. When you look for me, you will find me."
Jeremiah 29:11-13
September 2020
The dreadful effects of the COVID-19 pandemic continue to impact the lives of our suffering Catholic priests, like Father Bert below, who was unable to work for four months. Then, tragically, he suffered a devastating heart attack during a violent assault by an intruder who broke into his small apartment. Father Bert is slowly returning to work now and good health, but badly needed car repairs could easily put him out of work again.
“Dear Joe,
“I want to thank you most sincerely for the $250.00 check you sent. Your generosity is so very much appreciated. The check was very helpful in allowing me to get some medicine, food and to pay some bills. I hope someday I can have these financial burdens behind me, but I have learned that it is a good exercise in trusting Divine Providence.
“Our insurance plan at work was just renewed at the beginning of June and, of course, the price went up, so that is another bite from [my] check. From all indications most of the places I go to see my clients should be opening up in August, so that mileage will help.
“You asked me to update you on my financial picture, so here goes. I was in the hospital after a heart attack and the trauma I suffered (a stranger broke into my apartment and stole my wallet and phone and beat me in the head, neck and back.) I am OK, but it took me a long time to feel safe again. Anyway, I now have over $2,000.00 in hospital bills, so that is exciting.
“On top of that, the Diocese was giving me a little money, but they did not withhold taxes (although they told me they would.) Now I have a tax bill to pay of about $1,800.00. This was also the result of me cashing in an annuity my mother left me (all that was left of what she willed to me when she died) and not having enough tax withheld from that. Oh well . . . I am trying to chip away at that.
“You mentioned my car. Well, it has begun to have problems too (of course). I know it needs tires and breaks. But I have noticed that when I drive above 60 mph it shakes very violently. So much so that anything on the seats rattles. UGH. But I will try to find out what is wrong and see what I can do.
“My sisters and a friend have been giving me food money once in a while and that has helped.
“Joe, I am only sharing this so that you know that my need is genuine and because I have really grown to trust you. What I mean is that I can share all of this and I don’t feel like I am complaining, and I hope you know that I am not asking for anything. I know you care about me and it is great to have someone I can just be honest with and ‘lay it all out.’ Thank you for the loving care you offer me.
“Please know that I pray for you, MOM . . . I hope I haven’t overwhelmed you. Again, I am not asking for anything. I just wanted to respond to your request for an update and I am so glad to have you in my life. Sincerely, Father Bert”
"One person gives extravagantly yet grows still richer; another gives sparsely yet is the poorer. The person who confers benefits on others will be amply enriched, and the person who refreshes others will in turn be refreshed."
Proverbs 11:24-25
August 2020
As the awful effects of the virus pandemic continue to affect the lives of so many, some of our suffering priests, like Father Mike below, are deeply grateful for your prayers, support and encouragement. Because of you, Father Mike, who was one of our incarcerated priest-prodigal sons, was able to avoid homelessness after paying his debt to society. He now lives a spiritually powerful life of prayer, penance and service.
“Dear Joe,
“I am writing to acknowledge the grant I recently received from Men of Melchizedek and to thank you and MOM for this life-changing assistance, especially because of the employment uncertainties so many of us have had to face due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
“As you know, I have been the beneficiary of MOM since its founding, and in this past year it has been my great privilege and great joy also to volunteer with you in caring for my brother priests who are in prison or jail.
“After my own incarceration, the plans I had made to live fell through at the last minute. I was spared from a homeless shelter only through the kindness of a friend and your advice, encouragement and support.
“The city where I am required to reside is very expensive, and at 71, I am facing health issues (cardiac, orthopedic and vascular difficulties), and the reality that it doesn’t get better from here.
“I have been living on Social Security (which is not enough for even a modest room at market rates) and my small savings. I am, obviously, very concerned about what will become of me over the next several years since employment is now very hard to come by.
“The MOM grant relieves some of that pressure. I can keep up with my current bills and also begin to think more realistically about my future.
“I live simply, as I ought to do; but I’m also living with dignity and a degree of security which, absent the assistance I am receiving from MOM, I would not be able to do.
“The work MOM is doing is of great importance, not only to the men who directly benefit from it, but also to the Church and to society. You are ministering at the margins, as Pope Francis likes to say, and you are doing so in a way that takes up where the bishops and religious superiors all too often fail: in caring for the least and most despised of Jesus’ brothers. I am so grateful for your help!
“I know you pray every day for all of us in the MOM community. Please know that I also remember you, the board, the donors and the beneficiaries of your ministry in prayer and at Mass every day. “May God, who began this good work in you, bring it to completion!” (Phil. 1:6).
“Gratefully, Father Mike”
“My prayer is that your love may more and more abound in understanding
and experience . . . so that with a clear conscience . . .
you may learn to value the things that really matter . . .
It is my wish that you may be found rich in the harvest of justice
which Jesus Christ has ripened in you,
to the glory and praise of God.” Philippians 1:9-11
July 2020
As we all have been dreadfully affected by the ravages of the Coronavirus, some of our suffering priests, who were barely able to survive before the awful effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, now face dire financial consequences due to job loss. For some, like Father Bob below, this could mean eviction and homelessness.
“Dear Joe, I am writing to ask if MOM might be able to provide me with some financial assistance. I was ordained for the Archdiocese . . . where I ministered until I was removed in 2002. Since that time, I have struggled to find consistent work that would allow me to provide for myself . . .
“A year ago, the Archdiocese removed all the financial support I had been receiving – a small salary, a modest housing allowance and reimbursement for my health insurance premiums. As a result of this, I was compelled to hire a canon lawyer at my own expense . . .
“The Vatican found officially in my favor – ordering the Archbishop to restore my support plus back pay. However, the Diocese filed an appeal with the Vatican and it is unclear when that decision will be rendered. Despite the fact that the bishop has been explicitly instructed to continue supporting me while this case is on appeal, he has categorically refused to do so.
“After months of unsuccessful job hunting, I was finally able to find employment as an independent contractor with a local company this February. I had only worked for 6 weeks when I was furloughed as a direct result of the COVID-19 pandemic.
“The company has not indicated when I might return to work, but as my job requires extensive travel, I fear it might be some time before I am to resume working again . . .
“Joe, my monthly expenses include $1,020 for rent and utilities . . . a $778 health insurance premium (I seriously considered dropping my health insurance but did not at the insistence of my spiritual director), $50 a month for car insurance plus various other expenses.
“I am a frugal person and try to spend no more than $3 to $4 a day on food. This is one of the easier ways to trim my expenses as I have more control over what I eat then other things like rent or health insurance . . .
“Is there any way that MOM might be able to spare $600 a month until I am able to resume working? I cannot even express what a blessing that temporary help would be for me right now.
“Be assured that whatever your decision, I will continue to keep you and your incredible apostolate close to my heart and in my prayers. I am attaching a copy of my most recent health insurance premium invoice. I will also send you a rent notice . . . Sincerely, Father Bob”
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,
when you face trials of many kinds.
Realize that when your faith is tested, this makes for endurance.
Let endurance come to its perfection so that you may be fully mature
and lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom,
you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault,
and it will be given to you. James 1:2-5
June 2020
June is traditionally celebrated as the month honoring the Sacred Heart of Jesus Christ the High Priest. This great Feast Day celebrating the mercy and compassion of our God of Infinite and Unconditional Love, occurs this year on Friday, June 19th. It is an especially appropriate time to remember all our beloved Catholic priests and their many selfless sacrifices for all of us.
June 20th marks the exciting beginning of summer this year, when our hearts and minds anticipate the rejuvenating activities of much-needed vacations! But for many of our suffering priests, the adventurous days of summer will be filled with concern, worry and the intense anxiety of how to pay for the most basic necessities of life . . . unless you and I come to their aid.
Your prayers and generous financial assistance are urgently needed to provide critical, life-saving resources to assist our priests in distress. Some elderly priests who were removed from ministry because of decades old allegations, like Father Stanley below, seek your mercy, kindness and compassion just to make it through another day!
“Dear Joe . . .
“Unfortunately, given my age (76), several physical disabilities, and unemployable status (since the grand jury report last year) I have lost much of my income.
“I currently receive a Social Security payment of $1,000 a month (and about $100 a month in food stamps).
“However, my monthly expenses, including rent, utilities, health insurance (mostly Medicare), extra health insurance (and expenses), car expenses – come to a total of about $1,500 a month.
“As you can see, I’m now in deficit spending and have exhausted the little savings I had.
“This has reached . . . a crisis because my car (14 years old with over 151,000 miles) has had a breakdown and threatens my access to family, friends, groceries and Church.
“I was just wondering if . . . [MOM] will be offering any support in the foreseeable future. Thank you . . . Fr. Stanley”
“Come to me, all you who are weary and find life burdensome,
and I will refresh you.
Take my yoke upon your shoulders and learn from me,
for I am gentle and humble of heart.
Your souls will find rest, for my yoke is easy and my burden light.”
Matthew 11:28-30
May 2020
During this month dedicated to Our Blessed Mother, only your prayers and generous financial assistance provide the resources and support desperately needed to help troubled priests in distress, especially now, as so many of our ill, frail, and elderly priests are experiencing extreme hardships because of the current health crisis. Many of them, like Father Sam below, seek your mercy, kindness and compassion when they suffer intensely from personal trauma and tragedy, experiences that can slowly, unknowingly lead into a deep, dark abyss!
“Dear Friends, I have experienced a tumultuous year as I look toward my 70th birthday . . . I reluctantly recognized that I was living with an emotional depression that had been dangerously deepening over the past twenty years. I felt much older than my years!
“Looking back now, the depression began with my mother’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s and the progress of that tragic disease in her life over the next ten years. My depression was certainly exacerbated by the shock, anger and pain brought on by the priest abuse scandal that unfolded in devastating detail in Boston around the same time.
“The subsequent impact upon the Church, especially the diminished congregations at Sunday Mass, took a heavy toll upon me as I had committed my whole life to building up vibrant, welcoming faith communities in all the parishes I served.
“[A friend’s] diagnosis of ALS and the debilitating progress of that horrific disease in his life deepened my darkness. Finally, my abrupt transfer from [my parish] without sufficient time to process the impact of that major transition in my life plunged me headlong into a dark abyss.
“During the ensuing seven years I entered deeper and deeper into depression, isolating myself from family and friends . . . I knew that I could not responsibly move on to a new parish. I was not the priest I had been for forty years. I requested and was granted a health leave from ministry.
“I took up residence for five months at [a Catholic treatment center] for therapeutic treatment of depression. During those five months, with the help of the gifted staff and power of God’s grace, I regained my physical, emotional and spiritual health. I can happily assure you that I am feeling better now than I have felt in years!
“I returned to full-time ministry . . . Hindsight tells me that I should have asked for help much earlier, but men, and especially men who are priests, are reluctant to reach out for help. Priests are supposed to be the helpers! I recognize now that my depression was not a sign of weakness, but reflective of my attempt to remain strong too long.
“I have been blessed with an extraordinary network . . . you’re part of that support network. I thank you for your prayers during my recovery process. I continue to rely upon your support and friendship . . . God bless, Father Sam”
Depression, loneliness, tragedy, the feeling that the whole world is upon your shoulders, can bring any one of us down. But, for many of our beloved Catholic priests like Father Sam, they depend on our life-saving support and confidential friendship for the healing and recovery of their personal lives and the renewal of their priestly ministry.
“Count it pure joy, brothers and sisters, when you are involved in every sort of trial. Realize that when your faith is tested, this makes for endurance.
Let endurance come to its perfection so that you may be fully mature
and lacking in nothing.”
James 1:2-4
March 2020
Priests like Father Steve desperately seek your mercy, kindness and compassion to assist with their critical needs:
“Writing these words, in a way, brings back many memories. It was long ago, when people in great need would knock on the door where I resided. The stories told were as varied and as thick with pain as were the people. From eyes streaming with tears, to firm resolve, these people, these brothers and sisters, sought aid.
“The problems stretched deep into their hearts. They were looking for a second, third, sixth, twelfth, thirtieth ‘second chance.’ Never once, while listening to the stories, did I ever imagine that I would be composing a note in similar need.
“Yet, this is where I am now. My needs (to me) are great, and with nowhere to turn, I dare to turn to [MOM] which expresses concern for priests. In writing these words, I feel that the need I have may not be met, and that the depths of my need will sink further, but I must write, I must know if there is a chance that some of my needs might be met.
“In recent months, my time of “barely making ends meet” ended. Now, each day of each month, I wonder how I’m going to be able to pay the next bill, handle the next call requesting payment, send money which will keep the electricity on . . .
“In writing my request, the blame for my travail rests with me. I am the cause. I point to none other. Multiple errors in meeting my needs, and a long story, post-ministry . . . the accusing finger points in my direction. Perhaps I need be so bold as to compare myself with The Prodigal Son. Only in the midst of the slop, dung and festering menagerie did he realize where the blame was to land. In a way, this is me.
“Please pardon my diatribe, perhaps it’s not needed. Yet in my current state: bills, food needs . . . and the stress, to me, these are my ‘darkest days.’ At the ending of each month, dread begins to fill my personage . . .
“I make my paltry plea, with no knowledge as to whether this is a matter which you are even able to make any consideration whatsoever. I am one of many, and I presume there are many more in far worse condition than I. These are my brothers whom I pray for daily, and though not in contact, keep them close. No matter your decision I am grateful for your consideration . . . Thank you for your labor. Father Steve”“The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and of great kindness.
The Lord is good to all, and compassionate toward all His works.”
Psalm 145:8-9
Ash Wednesday 2020
Our Partners in Mission prayers and generous gift of alms help priests like the 73 year-old Father Jonathan below, who are in desperate need of our prayers and financial support just to survive day-to-day!
“Currently I live in a very small room in a local motel ...
"My only source of income is a monthly social security check for $961, which covers a little more than half my rent. Social Services provides me with food stamps each month which does not allow me to purchase any prepared foods, only frozen and canned items, milk, juice, fruit and other such items.
"I cannot purchase toiletries, over the counter medicines such as aspirin or Tylenol, etc. Also, items such as rotisserie chicken is not allowed.
"With the little savings I have left, I can't afford clothing or transportation. I have no car because the insurance would be impossible. Rent is my number #1 priority and that is where my Social Security is used ...
"I am scared about what will happen when I can no longer afford my rent. And so I come to you and ask for whatever financial help you are in a position to offer. It is very difficult for me to ask and beg, but I have no other place to turn.
"God bless Men of Melchizedek for all you do for the priesthood. Fraternally, Rev. Jonathan"
"If a brother or sister has nothing to wear
and has no food for the day,
and one of you says to them,
'Go in peace, keep warm, and eat well,'
but you do not give them the necessities of the body,
what good is it?"
James 2:14-24
February 2020
During these frigid days of winter in the northern United States, priests living in near-destitute circumstances, some even unable to afford heat just to stay alive. As Father John’s letter below so poignantly states, without our help, he will have to sleep on his kitchen floor with his oven door open just to stay warm!
“Dear Joe,
“Greetings and good day! Rather than sending a text or email, I chose to send you this via old-fashioned mail. Perhaps the surety of expression and depth is the reason for choosing this means over others.
“In the past four weeks, I’ve sold [my] emergency medical supplies . . . Thus, my emergency needs are gone. With winter . . . and all that surrounds it, I must reach out for assistance.
“I take full blame, as I shared with you during our conversation in Michigan last October, of my own foibles.
“. . . things don’t look very good with no assistance forthcoming. Admittedly, this reminds me of 1993, when I was laicized, and every bit of funding and insurance ended immediately. Back then, however, I was able to work, and even though such was difficult to find, I found work which allowed me to “put bread on the table and pay the bills”.
“I’m reminded of the days when the winter weather outside was warmer than my apartment. The temp inside was often 20 degrees, and I had to sleep with the stove on and oven door open. With no assistance at all coming forth, I fear the worse.
“I’m reluctant to send this note to MOM, and to you, Joe, for I do not want to be a burden . . . Yet, I have no other outlet to request assistance from.
“I’m looking for not “more than needed”, but enough to address this, for me, very difficult situation. I know . . . there are brothers in far worse situations than I am. I make my request with this knowledge.
“Joe, thanks for reading of my current situation, and for considering my assistance request. Thank you and [MOM] for the labors that you are engaged in. Thank you for helping those in varied levels of need. Thank you for taking up the standard for us “lepers”.
“Thank you for taking God’s call seriously that secular, civil and religious antagonists cannot stop you from following. Sincerely, Father John.”
Thanks to all of our Parthers in Mission for your kindness on behalf of our humbled and repentant priests like Father John, our modern day Prodigal Son, who have lived decades of faithful service alone, as hermits, in a life of prayer and penance for their own sins and for the salvation of our souls.
As St. Paul shared with the Christian church in Corinth, “who is weak that I am not affected by it?”
“. . .enduring labor, hardship, many sleepless nights; in hunger and thirst and frequent fastings, in cold and nakedness. Leaving other sufferings unmentioned, there is that daily tension pressing on me, my anxiety for all the churches. Who is weak that I am not affected by it?”
St. Paul’s 2nd Letter to the Christians in Corinth 11:27-29
January 2020
In the current anti-clerical environment, Father Matt and some of his wounded brothers continue to be hounded by an insatiable media looking for the next great “sin-sational” priest abuse story. In this case, even Father Matt’s accuser is looking to cash in on “fictious allegations” to promote her own book.
“I am a priest “off the job” for about 20 years. During that time, I was able to live a life of prayer and penance. I believe that my accuser unjustly targeted me and brought forth many fictitious allegations at the time. There is no question that she had “an axe to grind” for my demise. This was 35 years ago.
“I was able to be reassigned as director of a spirituality center for priests which lasted for 8 years. She received compensation at the time for counseling. No criminal or civil charges were ever filed against me.
“I was able to achieve two small employment opportunities during these past 20 years: one as a grief counselor at a local cemetery, the second working in mental health at a local hospital. The latter position offered me stability even though it was difficult to pay my monthly housing and medical expenses.
“The diocese cut off all financial compensation around 2004.
“When the huge scandal of last summer involving the former Cardinal Theodore McCarrick surfaced, my accuser of 35 years ago contacted a local news reporter, who named the hospital where I was working. I was terminated from that employment the next month.
“My accuser’s statements were filled with false information. It was obvious her purpose was to promote the book she had written about her alleged abuse from me.
“I have tried to find employment (even though I have passed a recent FBI background check and other checks) but to no avail. I have used my limited funds to receive a license in the insurance industry, but this also had been met with no success so far (a quick Google search brings up my troubles.)
“I could really benefit from financial assistance, $385 a month would allow me to pay my housing, medical/prescription co-pays (I have type II diabetes) and other expenses.
“If MOM [Men of Melchizedek] could assist me it would be most helpful!
“Be assured of my daily prayers (and private Masses) for your ministry to priests. We certainly could use your help! Fr. Matt”
It is true that not every priest is innocent, but it is equally true that not every priest is guilty. If a priest is guilty, but repentant, seeking MOM’s help for healing and renewal, we are the first to help him in his desire to grow in holiness. If a priest is innocent, we want to be the first to come to his defense.
In both cases, we at MOM believe our dear Mary, Mother of Priests, is calling all of us to non-judgmental love and assistance to her wounded and suffering priest-sons. Our mission is not about enabling, it’s about authentic witness and prudential support. And, what mother wouldn’t remember those who helped her sons in their most desperate hour?Do not speak evil against one another.
The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother,
speaks evil against the law and judges the law.
If, however, you judge the law,
you are no observer of the law, you are its judge.
There is but one Lawgiver and Judge.
James 4:11-12
November 2019
Our Partners in Mission generous financial support and prayers are crucial for our beloved priests, especially those suffering from mental health illnesses like Father James below. YOUR goodness provides the vital resources needed to offer them urgent supplemental funding when dioceses and health insurance programs fall short in their financial support!
“To Joseph Maher, president, and members of the board of MOM,
“Let me tell you a little bit of my background and my appeal for funding . . . I am a 55-year-old Roman Catholic Priest . . . I was ordained for the diocese [in] . . . 2000 . . .
“I requested from the bishop to discern joining the Franciscan Friars . . . in 2004. I and the order, after 1 year, discerned I didn't have a calling to the Franciscans, and so I requested from the bishop to return to the diocese.
“In 2005, after I returned from the Friars, I was never offered a permanent assignment. At that time, I was not given an assignment by the diocese, and they soon dropped the $500/month they were giving me for a while when I was helping out various priests throughout the diocese who needed help . . .
“I did have health problems but tried to help out where I could. The health problems increased, and they still refused to give me an assignment. The small amount they gave me ($500) came to an end in September 2006 . . .
“In 2009 I was diagnosed with bipolar disease disorder, and when the hospital diagnosed me as having bipolar disorder (which is a mental disorder) the diocese wouldn't help . . .
“Now the hospital has told me to live in a personal care facility. I also have fractured kneecaps, and have a crooked spine (scoliosis), and the kneecaps will put me in a wheelchair for six weeks, or a longer time.
“Without the knee operation I have the threat of a wheelchair for life . . .
“[The diocese] started financially assisting me in 2014, but not enough. It is only $1971/month which isn't enough for me to live in this personal care facility, which the hospital told me to live in.
“I pay $3220 for rent/month, and personal care. That makes me $1249/month short of what I need to pay . . .
“. . . whatever you can give would be most needed. I would appreciate it very much, pray for you, and God will eternally bless you . . . In Christ, Fr. James”
Father James’ mental and physical health struggles are terribly debilitating, but not unique. When a crippling illness like bi-polar disorder first manifests itself in our adult years, it can be extremely devastating and result in life-altering restrictions.
In Her wisdom, the Church must sometimes make very difficult decisions regarding the state of a priest’s mental health, which at times requires an assessment by the bishop on whether a priest’s mental health impedes him from continuing in ministry. With Father James, his bishop has determined that he cannot continue in ministry. However, with critical assistance from a canon lawyer in our network, the diocese agreed to provide financial help to Father James, although as his letter states, it is not nearly enough.
Now, Father James has reached out to us at MOM for additional assistance, and as is our policy, we turn no priest away, whatever the challenges he may be facing, if we have the ability to help him.
“While we have the opportunity, let us do good to all,
but especially those of the household of the faith.”
St. Paul’s Letter to the Christians in Galatia 6:10
October 2019
Because of prayers and loving financial support for our beloved priests from our Partners in Mission, when Father Tony, like The Prodigal Son, was at his lowest point, huddled up and terrified on a hard bunk of a cold dark jail cell—while a guard from the other side of the bars told him to kill himself, and having nowhere else to go for help—he received kindness, caring and compassion in his time of desperation!
“Dear Joe, I just want to take a moment to thank you and your team for the truly life-saving work you do on behalf of priests who have been removed from active ministry . . . Beyond the financial support, though, you do something even bigger. Without judgment, you accept priests in our circumstances with the compassion of Jesus in the Gospels, and you assure us that we still matter, still have a place in Christ’s Church.
“I certainly don’t have to tell you what a rarity that is these days! When even some bishops are quick to abandon their accused priests, you stand by us, fighting to ensure that we are treated fairly and humanely.
“For years (in some cases, even for decades), we priests have forgiven sinners and visited the imprisoned, assuring them that, whatever wrong they may have done, they are not cut off from God’s grace or from Christ’s love, and helping them to find a way back. Who does that for errant priests? Only you, I’m afraid.
“I remember waking up on my first morning in jail, a guard kicking loudly at the door of my cell and harassing me with reasons why I should hang myself. He made me feel that I wasn’t even worthy to be alive. In complete contrast, you reached out, time and time again, with kindness and compassion, gently reminding me that I am still loved by God, that I still have a place in the Church, that I still have something to give.
“With remarkable faith and love, you stand ready to help any priest in need, regardless of his circumstances. There are times when it is hard to imagine how I will get through another day – but then, you and your team are there, unraveling the knots and helping me to take one strand of problems at a time, patiently helping me to find solutions and move forward. For the countless hours you have spent listening as I pour out my troubles, encouraging me and giving me hope, I simply can never thank you enough.
“I know there are those who oppose the work that you do, as though it is somehow an offense against victims, and I’m sorry for the indignities you’ve suffered as a result. The reality is that ALL of us want to see abuse and harassment wiped out from the Church entirely . . . But support for priests – even priests who have done wrong – is not an offense against victims; it is an expression of the mercy that is supposed to be a hallmark of Christ’s Church.
“I pray that God will give you the courage, wisdom, and strength to continue to act in ways that are countercultural, but that are very much at the core of the Church’s mission. And if there are ways that I can put my meager gifts at the service of your wonderful organization, I trust that you will let me know. In the meantime, you are in my prayers each day, that God will give you the resources you need to continue to help the most outcast members of our Church and our society. Blessings, Father Tony”
“While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him and was deeply moved. He ran out to meet him, threw his arms around his neck, and kissed him. The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against God and against you: I no longer deserve to be called your son.’”
Luke 15: 20-21
September 2019
When our president, Joe Maher, called Father Pat after receiving his email below, Joe found him to be, quite literally, at the end of his rope. With nowhere else to turn, in panic and desperation he reached out to Men of Melchizedek (MOM).
Like most of the priests-in-crisis we assist, Father Pat has helped so many people during his years of priestly ministry. Now, he was facing a terrible physical and emotional crisis, feeling utterly abandoned and alone, and he was too embarrassed and humiliated to ask for help for himself.
“Good afternoon, Mr. Maher,
“I am in a very bad way at the moment! Last week on my return from the local food-market, I discovered that I had no electricity. I called the associates who manage the rentals where I live. The said there were no problems they were working on, and I should call my provider. So, I did, and I was told that they disconnected my service for lack of payment.
“In my preoccupation in getting a vehicle since my old car was finally beyond repair, I had put off paying my electric bill for three months to pay for my current used car. To get my electric back on, I had to pay it all to become up to date. I asked the Holy Spirit to inspire a solution.
“Since my small Social Security check had just been deposited in my checking account, which I need all of it to pay my monthly rent and having no other money, I had to use my SS to pay the electric bill.
“As you know, prices keep going up, so just to pay the ordinary expenses, such as insurance, utilities, etc., I need a minimum of $300.00 more per month now.
“God certainly has unpredictable ways of testing and deepening my faith in His Providence. I have exhausted all other efforts to secure the extra $300 a month I now need, and have no one else to turn to! To make this worst, two days ago the landlord just gave me a 30-day notice since he is ‘forced’ to sell this place.
“I can’t find a rent for less than $1,100.00 per month, which is considerably more than what I am presently paying. I didn’t know that prices had gone up that much. So now, I really am in dire need of help.
“Would MOM please consider helping me? I don’t know where else to go if you can’t.
“Your prayers and support to this end would be most greatly appreciated!” Father Pat (Hebrews 7:17)”
And there are so many more priests like Father Pat, priest-in-crisis, wounded healers, who are reaching out to you during their times of extreme difficulty and dire need, priests like Father Ed. He offered these words of gratitude and appreciation for the hope your life-saving donations offer.
“As you know, the circumstances in which we live makes it challenging to find the kind of work that would allow us to fully support ourselves. I, for one, live pretty close to the edge, and without your support I wouldn’t make it. When a major bill hits, like an unexpected car repair or medical bill, there’s simply no way to come up with that extra cash. I can’t tell you how much more bearable life is for me just knowing that you are there and you will do what you can to help. You give me hope of being able to continue on.” Father Ed
“There are in the end three things that last: faith, hope and love,
and the greatest of these is love.”
1 Corinthians 13:13
August 2019
When Father Larry called, he said he felt like the walls of his little apartment were closing in and that he had given up all hope. In this time of crisis, he turned to Men of Melchizedek (MOM) for help. And thanks to your prayers and generous financial offerings, Father Larry has been helped to move beyond the fear and terror he was experiencing. He is now renewed in confident faith and trust in Divine Providence!
“I am writing to you in sincere gratitude for the emergency gift of $500.00 that you sent to me earlier this week. Words are insufficient to express the depth of my gratitude. You literally have saved me.
“I had been involved in a car accident a couple of weeks ago which left my car un-drivable. My car is necessary for my new job . . . I really like the job, but it does not pay enough. I have scrutinized my budget and there is nothing extra in it. I am simply paying rent, insurance, car payment, phone and for a storage room until I can sell or give away all my belongings. (I moved from a big rectory into a tiny apartment and have nowhere to keep my belongings.)
“Recently I have been talking to an auctioneer and a consignment sales store to see what is entailed in using their services. This is very painful, as some of the things in storage were things I inherited when my Mother died. I also have my chalice for sale at a religious goods store. This is the most painful of all.
“I am currently looking for a part-time job for nights and weekends . . . Paying my bills is sometimes a great juggling act. In fact, even though I pay my insurance premium for my car every month, I was a little late in June and my policy lapsed by two days at the time of the accident. I was unaware of the lapse and had paid the premium that morning but apparently there is a 24 hour “download” time and my coverage did not pick up again until the morning after the accident. So the repair bill of $500.00 was left up to me to pay. Simply put, if I lost my car, I would lose my job (we have to make home visits and make monthly trips to . . .)
“It is no exaggeration to say that I was really feeling hopeless and depressed. Then MOM came as a true gift from God. Without your help I know I would now be on the street. Your willingness to listen to me, to pray with me and to be so generous in financial aid are truly a lifeline to me.
“It is very true to say I have experienced the love of God made real through you. Please know of my continued prayers for you and for MOM. May you, and your ministry know the blessings of Providence, whose agents of charity, prayer and love you are. With heartfelt gratitude and prayers, Fr. Larry”
Our love, generosity and caring support are desperately needed for our priests who have been accused, abandoned and cut-off. These are priests, like Father Larry, who have no one else to turn to for help, but MOM where they know they can count on our support to know the Providential Hand of God in their hour of crisis and urgent need.What good is it to profess faith without practicing it?
Such faith has no power to save one, has it?
If a brother or sister has nothing to wear and no food for the day,
and you say to them, “Goodbye and good luck! Keep warm and well fed,”
but do not meet their bodily needs, what good is that?
So it is with faith that does nothing in practice.
It is thoroughly lifeless.
James 2: 14-17
July 2019
When Father Al was surprised by a visit from the County Sheriffs after celebrating Sunday Mass, and subsequently arrested because of a 30-year-old allegation, he found himself utterly alone, abandoned and terrified. Not knowing what to do next, or who to call, he turned to Men of Melchizedek (MOM) for help. And thanks to your prayers, Father Al now has the courage and renewed strength of faith to face this horrible, frightful ordeal, but not alone!
“I am writing to you to say that I want to thank you for all you are doing for me during this difficult time.
“The joyful happiness I had when I became a priest has been shared to the best of my ability over these 34 yrs. of ministry. The work that you started at Opus Bono and now continue in Men of Melchizedek is inspirational and so important that, without it, we would all be worse off than we are now.
“From . . . when we first came to talk and get to know each other, you were the only one to come to my aid, when all was thought to be surely lost. In the last months . . . you listened to me and undauntedly stood by me and came here . . . to be with me for my hearings. Each night when we talk, as you do for so many of the priests that you have taken under your wing, your love and compassion and zeal and understanding, are a definite credit to who you are.
“I am most thankful that you did not judge me as a Jekyll and Hyde, but rather as one of Jesus’ ‘broken’ priests who is truly sorry for what he did and remorseful to all those who have been affected and/or hurt. I have shared with you that I hope to see the glass right side up again when this is over, and thanks to your being there, as you have the last seventeen years, and now and for the future, I pray that God, Jesus, Mary, the Holy Spirit, and the angels and saints of Heaven give you much more Grace as you continue to stand for those fellows who have made mistakes and want to right them before God and the Church and Society.
“So, I want it to be known that the work you are doing is so very important . . . don't despair and don't give up since Jesus and Mary are certainly there in all the work that you are doing and have done. Continue the good fight, In Jesus Mercy . . . Now and In the Future. Respectfully Yours in Christ; Rev. Al, Jesus I Trust In You!!!”
Unfortunately, Father Al’s situation has become all too familiar. Every Catholic priest is now vulnerable to allegations that can be made, even from decades ago – true or false. In June, the United States Catholic Conference of Bishopsreleased the heartbreaking report that in 2018, 1,385 adults came forward with 1,455 allegations of abuse, which was up from 695 allegations in the previous year.
Every day dear and much-loved Catholic priests across our country make themselves available and accessible to countless people, and sometimes they become extremely vulnerable to allegations and accusations of misconduct. We offer our heartfelt gratitude for their many sacrifices and their selfless spiritual and pastoral service to the people of God.
“If anyone says, ‘My love is fixed on God,’ yet hates his brother, he is a liar. One who has no love for the brother he has seen
cannot love the God he has not seen.”
1 John 4:20
June 2019
When Father Jim heard the news that Opus Bono Sacerdotii was transitioning to a retreat center he became worried, anxious, upset and alarmed. Thinking the worst, that all the years of healing and encouragement Father Jim had received were now lost forever, he sent us this concerned and appreciative text message:
“A note on Holy Saturday to say thanks!
“More so, I continue to keep you and your family in prayerful intercession. This is my means of connection with you, so I’ll use it to reach out and thank you for “being there”.
“A quaint phrase, but the meaning is more than that.
“For years, I knew someone was out there. Someone who cared and was available.
“Out of the blue, you offered encouragement and support; aside from family and close friends, the like I’d not encountered for many years.
“I know from your stories that I’m not alone with these sentiments.
“Where the Lord calls you next, I trust that you will follow. I would be speaking falsely if I said that the OBS connection is still there.
“Nevertheless, for so much more than you might be aware, I am deeply grateful.
“As I approach the Lord, in the Holy Eucharist on Easter Sunday, I will offer Him my gratitude that He allowed me, for a time, to know tacitly, and tangibly that someone cared. God bless you, Fr. Jim"
It’s not surprising that priests like Father Jim were anxious when they heard that Opus Bono Sacerdotii would be transitioning to establishing a much-needed retreat center for removed priests. But now, where could they quickly turn in times of crisis, fear and hopelessness, desperate for the loving, generous support that gave them the hope and confidence to go on for another day?
The times we live in pose unprecedented challenges for our beloved Catholic priests. They are often overwhelmed with distress, anxiety, even a sense of terror. But thanks be to God through Men of Melchizedek (MOM), we are be able to assist our suffering priests, like Father Jim, who have nowhere else to turn for support – sometimes just to make it through the day!
We named the mission for the eternal priesthood we serve. And we think it fitting that our acronym is “MOM”. And, we are confident that Our Blessed Lady, Mary, Mother of Priests, will grant many graces to all of us who offer our ardent prayers and personal sacrifices of love to care for Her poor priest-sons through Men of Melchizedek.
Son though He was, Jesus learned obedience from what He suffered;
and when perfected, He became the source of eternal salvation
to all who obey Him, designated by God as high priest
according to the order of Melchizedek.
Hebrew 5:8-10